“Colossians 4:6 Let your conversation be gracious and effective so that you will have the right answer for everyone.” New Living Translation © 1996 Tyndale Charitable Trust
One of the hardest aspects of the divorce process is communicating with your wife (not that the average man has an easy time ever communicating effectively with any woman [...]

Eph 6:14-18 ” Stand your ground, putting on the sturdy belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News, so that you will be fully prepared. In every battle you will need faith as your shield to stop the fiery arrows aimed [...]

(This article was originally published on 06AUG)
One of the common features of getting divorced seems to be an external effort (doesn’t just have to be from your spouse, you’d be amazed at where it comes from) to convince you that you are having psychological/emotional “problems”. Referrals for counseling become steady, both formal and informal. Given [...]

(This article was originally published on 16AUG)
One of the hardest things for a Christian husband is how to deal with the wife that demands for a divorce. You agree to go to counseling and each session is an exercise in the counselor listening to her, while giving you the look like “you evil man, how [...]

(This article was originally published on 25AUG)
Hi, bj,
I have been reading your web page as I want to understand a Christian man\’s perspective on divorced and ministry. I was married for 35 years and have been divorced for 2 years. I know your web site is devoted to men, this is what I believe the [...]

(This is an article that originally was published on 15AUG)
One of the first thoughts for the Church worker when confronted with the destruction of his marriage is concern over his future in ministry. It is clear from the Scripture that church elders and deacons are to be the “husband of one wife.” The implications of [...]

“Ephesians 4:32 - Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” New Living Translation © 1996 Tyndale Charitable Trust
I‘ve been reading a lot of posts in Christian discussion boards and blogs lately, trying to get a general feel for the attitudes towards divorce and specifically, [...]

Ezekiel 16:8 - “And when I passed by and saw you again, you were old enough to be married. So I wrapped my cloak around you to cover your nakedness and declared my marriage vows. I made a covenant with you, says the Sovereign Lord, and you became mine.”New Living Translation © 1996 Tyndale Charitable [...]

2 Corinthians 1:6, Philippians 1:28 (see quotes below)
One of the major concerns that you will have is your own health. Men are significantly more negatively effected by the divorce process that women (see Sudden Divorce Syndrome) with respect to their physical and mental health. This linked article summarizes some of these effects. Should this be [...]

1 Corinthians 6:1 - “When you have something against another Christian, why do you file a lawsuit and ask a secular court to decide the matter, instead of taking it to other Christians to decide who is right?”
New Living Translation © 1996 Tyndale Charitable Trust
So you know that divorce is the only satisfactory action left. [...]